What Poland doesn't post.
You saw the 30-second version. Every Sunday, I send the whole story. One email about Poland and the people living it, from a foreigner who stayed 15 years.
Sundays only. Leave in one click.
Every issue has the same shape. Five short sections. One coffee.
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The Story
One person, one Poland. The nurse who came for a year and stayed for a decade. The grandmother who remembers the queues. The man who followed a woman to Kraków and ended up following the country. Told properly, not in a caption.
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Explained
One Polish thing you've always wondered about, explained in 60 seconds. Why nobody smiles at strangers on the tram. Why name days matter more than birthdays. Why Sunday dinner starts at two.
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Your Letters
A reader's question, confession or argument. Sometimes I answer it. Sometimes I hand it straight to you, because you'll argue better than I can.
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This Week
The new episode. The post that travelled. The one that should have. Everything I made this week, in one place, so you don't have to chase it across four apps.
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After the Mic
What my guests share once the recording stops, with their blessing. The honest answer, the second thought, the story that didn't fit the episode. It never goes on YouTube. It only goes here.
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A look inside
He came for a woman. He stayed for the country.
A British engineer moves to Kraków in his thirties for a relationship. Eighteen months later the relationship is over. He's still here, eleven years on. Everyone assumes I stayed because I couldn't face going home,
he told me. I stayed because for the first time in my life, nobody was performing.
Why "how are you?" is a trap in Poland
Ask a Polish colleague how they are and you may get the truth. All of it. This is not rudeness. It's a different contract about what words are for, and in 60 seconds you'll understand why British small talk sounds like lying to a Polish ear.
Your Letters
I'm from Ohio. I've watched every one of your videos. Are Polish women really as cold as the comments say, or is that what men say when they get told no?
My answer is longer than she expected.
This Week
New episode out Thursday. The dating-culture Reels have now passed millions of views, and the comments section turned into a war. I read all of it so you don't have to.
After the Mic
Last week's guest told me what she really thinks about Polish men's mothers. The camera was already off. You'll get it Sunday.
A sample of the format. The stories above are illustrative.
You don't have to be moving here. You just have to be curious.
- The Confidential is for the Pole who wants to see her own country through a stranger's eyes.
- For the foreigner in Warsaw who speaks the language and still can't read the room.
- For the American or the Brit who fell down a Poland rabbit hole at 11pm and never quite climbed out.
- For the one with Polish grandparents, a surname nobody can pronounce, and a feeling they can't explain.
It is not for anyone who wants Poland sold to them. I'm not selling it. I'm explaining it, and I give you both sides so you can decide.
A foreigner, writing about Poland. On purpose.
I've lived in Poland for 15 years. Long enough to argue in Polish. Not long enough to stop being asked where I'm from.
I host Warsaw Confidential, Poland's leading English-language podcast about immigration, identity and this strange, generous, stubborn country. Before that I spent 20 years in marketing, which mostly taught me what not to do with your attention.
I've been in Forbes, GQ, Vanity Fair and on TVN. I still get the look at the pharmacy. I'm not a guru and I don't have a system. I have stories, 15 years of notes, and a microphone that people seem to forget is on.
Nobody tells me what to say. I give both sides so you can decide.
Social proof
Questions
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Once a week, on Sunday. The only exception is a short welcome note the moment you sign up. If anything else lands in your inbox from me, something has gone wrong and you should tell me.
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Nothing. The Confidential is free to read. If that ever changes, you'll hear it from me first, and nothing you've already received will be taken away.
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One click at the bottom of any issue and you're out. No "are you sure?", no guilt, no follow-up email asking why.
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I ask for your first name and your email address, and I use them to send you The Confidential. Your browser also shares a few technical details, like your country, which we keep as a record of your sign-up. Everything is stored securely under GDPR rules, never sold, never shared with sponsors. Email [email protected] and your data is deleted. The data controller is SBK Coaching Sp. z o.o., ul. Madalińskiego 23/7B, 02-513 Warsaw, Poland.
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Yes. Polish words turn up, always with a translation. If you're Polish, you'll see your country in a different light, and you're welcome to correct me. People do.
Sunday is coming.
The first issue is No. 001. One story, one explanation, one letter, and what somebody said after the microphone went off.
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